What constitutes gay?

[Leslie]

This is my kind of thread, who is the homo that forgot to buy the beers.

 

[nur azieni]

Sounds like you were curious , checked it out and said not for me . My opinion - you are not gay .

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[Pompal 09.]

Touch, look, feel, lick another individuals cock "engorged" or limp in my books equals at the very least BI. I am old school, guess it comes with being 50 something. I am not judging anyone who is into that, as it was said on a popular Seinfeld episode, "not that there is anything wrong with that" as long as I don't have to look at it that is. :

 

[Ant]

Does anyone else get a chubby when Gen says 'Cock' ? (or hard Cock) ?


BTW - I typed this with my 'Hard Cock' :razz:

 

[vball07]

+ 1

 

[Expressyourself]

I say they are both screwed up question should be who cares, fuck either and shoot your orgasm over any face.

 

[Lori]

Ray, does Clint know about your hard c, c, shit I can't even say it.

 

[?????????????????????]

Too much labeling. We're all somewhere in the confines of the Kinsey scale, and extremely few of us are at the polar extremes (all hetero or all homo). Furthermore, what turns us on evolves as we go through life. Bi, gay, straight. Dom, switch, sub. Bodytypes. Blondes, brunettes, redheads.

Do what feels good and is consensual, and be damned with so much labeling.

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[Pompal 09.]

Are we still discussing this. Tgirl you are what you are and be proud we do not judge in this site we just like to get laid.

 

[Khan]

So back to the story he swallows cum and thinks he is not gay?.

 

[mary G]

Nikki, There's no point in getting upset. Those of us who are active in the poly/kinky/queer/GLBT community understand that gender identity is a bit more complex than mere biological determination. The mundanes do not, nor do they care to.

You've tried to educated them, great, but forcing the issue down their throats is not going to win you any friends. Might as well let it drop, like I did with RedLight.

That being said, I'm tired of engaging in bestiality, necrophilia, and BDSM (flogging a dead horse). I'm off to Subspace, maybe I'll see some of you there.

 

[Meech]

I have seen this thread on the other board. Good guys were being banned over it for defending their positions.

I admit I handle an engorged cock everyday, sometimes twice a day. I also admit that it happens to be only my precious engorged member.

My honest opinion is live and let live, just don't try and change my preferance and call me backwards because I only enjoy womens company.

 

[Mr. Samsa]

I will slowly back away with 4times too. 4times, let's sneak over to the Brass Rail I need a shot of testorone.

 

[Unknown Truth]

No problem, I didn't take it as an insult at all - it's a perfectly valid question which I'm happy to answer.

No, I've never, ever entertained a client without telling him I'm a tgirl. That's why I put it in my handle - to avoid misconceptions. That would be improper business practice, unfair to the client, and frankly, very, very dangerous. A guy might overreact to that sort of situation, and it wouldn't be very safe for me. Tgirls have been killed over that sort of thing, many many times.

It happened once when I was dancing at a strip club (one with a section specifically for tgirls) and the guy wandered down from the other part of the club. His english was bad, he was drunk, and he didn't really understand when the DJ told him the details. He asked me for a dance, and after the third one, my panties came off and the dude freaked out. He wasn't violent, but totally shocked and pretty upset. We let him go without paying for the dances (didn't want to press the issue) and I stopped dancing there shortly therafter.

Now, guys hit on me all the time, and I flirt back without disclosing; I've made out with guys in clubs before, but that's as far as it goes. Once things start to get serious, that's when I drop the bomb. In some cases, they run ("Thanks for letting me know... see ya!") which sucks, but it's better than putting myself in danger. Sometimes, they don't believe me ("Yeah right, you're just telling me that to get rid of me") and I tell them, yep, you're absolutely right, and walk away. On a few occasions, they were surprised, but still interested; I won't go into the details, but let's just say they expanded their horizons that night! :wink:

But no, I'd never, ever mislead someone like that. Also, my cock never puts anyone else's to shame; after two years of hormone therapy, I can't even get hard without viagra, and even then, I'm average at best. I'd say that 9 out of 10 clients are bigger than I am (which suits me just fine) and the 1 out of 10 never seem to complain. ile:

 

[Pompal 09.]

Nikki with all due respect, in my younger days I use to go to the clubs. I would have been very upset if a TGIRL had started french kissing with me. That in itself is not fair to the unsuspecting male who only wants to be with a strictly biological woman with a vagina. I don't believe that is a safe thing to be doing.

 

[arabianbarbie]

Absolutely, I'm not questioning your right to your opinion at all, and thank you for responding.

Just so I'm clear - it seems that, based on your responses, no single act defines one's sexuality, am I right? Whether it's the first or the hundredth act is important, though it could be that you're defined by the first and the next hundred don't matter, or you're defined by the last and the first hundred don't matter.

Either way, no single act determines sexuality, so it seems to be more complex than we'd assume. I'm not trying to pick and fights, I'm just trying to illustrate that there may not be a clear, definitive answer to "what constitutes gay?" so maybe we're better off letting people answer that for themselves.

Sorry to monopolize the discussion, I'm heading out for the night so I'll let you guys sort it out. Have fun!

 

[Caron]

Funny how things tend to spread, huh? :

Two things I'd like to contribute:

1) The so-called "good guys" (though you'll have to forgive me if I don't share the sentiment) weren't banned for defending their positions; they were banned for blatantly insulting an advertiser. This is a critical difference, which I hope is understood by those who are participating in this thread.

2) A question based on two scenarios:
a: A guy (who identifies as straight) has had sex with 100 women, decides he'd like to try sucking a dick, and does so.
b: A guy (who identifies as gay) has had sex with 100 men, and decides he'd like to try licking a pussy, and does so.

Who counts as what, and why?

Hopefully we can avoid having this thread turn into the same thing as the other one did... but please remember that sexuality is complex, varied, and unstable. We may never reach any conclusions, but hopefully, we can still contribute opinions without having to create definitions.

 

[Nibej]

My first post and some of you may not like it. I slept with a man years ago (safe sex) my curiosity got the best of me. For years I felt some kind of attraction towards men, my head was confused thinking I was gay. Its been 2 years now and the urge is gone and see women in a regular basis.

Does that make me gay?.

 

[jonasgroupie313]

One of those banned individuals is from this board and in my opinion he did not insult you he stated his opinion. I also believe an individual with a penis is biologically male and an individual with a vagina is female.

I admit that some lady bodybuilders could pass for a man, but in the end they have a vagina, in my opinion, WHICH I have a right to have, they are female.

If this board wants to follow the Gestapo mentality of the other board so be it, but I am not going to be bullied into having beliefs shoved down my throat.

Why didn't the pro gay boys in that thread get banned, I seen enough insults being hurled towards others and they still are not banned.

This politically correct bullshit is just plain WRONG!






In my humble opinion yes it does, I would say you have homosexual tendencies, and I am not judging you I am stating my opinion.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Hahahahahahahahaha. That line was so good, I'm almost tempted to offer you a discount for making me laught.