What NOT to ask a spa girl

[sinistarglobal]

Put together a short list of questions that I have either been told really annoy some ladies, or the (very) occasional faux-pas on my behalf
Would be interested to hear others. Some will be very obvious but some of us are pretty daft lol. Apologize if a similar thread exists that I have missed.

1. Ask for phone number. Contentious point discussed in other threads but I personally would only ask after several repeats, and with a very specific purpose in mind (eg. If MP suggesting she is taking an extended trip to China in near future and you want to see her before/after same. Or if she is talking about leaving her spa and heading elsewhere). I am surprised by how many offer it themselves.
2. Her age. You will very likely not get a "clear" answer anyways and some really dislike even asking (I have never asked TBH)
3. Why are you doing this work. Do you like this work. I asked a veteran provider who I though I was having a good convo with this early in my hobbying and the session turned bad very quickly. Avoid.
4. Do you have children. How old are your children. Even if they offer up the fact they have kids-- I do not ask their age. Safe to assume many do have children.
5. Do you have a boyfriend/husband.
6. What city are you from. This one I would suggest less contentious, but some, maybe from smaller cities, feel this is too personal.

Clearly some of these question might be fine with ladies you have repeated with and built rapport.....

 

[Lalallala]

Oh dude. I’ve asked each and every one of these questions

Before opening the thread I assumed it was gonna be.. “do you take it up the bum?” Or some shit like that

 

[sinistarglobal]

Oh dude. I’ve asked each and every one of these questions

Before opening the thread I assumed it was gonna be.. “do you take it up the bum?” Or some shit like that

Yeah, that's a whole separate list of questions lol. Trying to keep it semi here. Curious how you have done with question 3. One well known lady has told me this is the "question of death" for her and did the knife across neck. sign .
Another very bluntly complained to me. "Man ask me if I like work. I tell him, what you think, I enjoy giving HJ to 8 random men every day... and telling them no you can't F*(** me. "

 

[Lalallala]

Yeah, that's a whole separate list of questions lol. Trying to keep it semi here. Curious how you have done with question 3. One well known lady has told me this is the "question of death" for her and did the knife across neck. sign .
Another very bluntly complained to me. "Man ask me if I like work. I tell him, what you think, I enjoy giving HJ to 8 random men every day... and telling them no you can't F*(** me. "

I always assume that the answer to 3) is the same: money. Gotta make a living some how.

But as to the reasons.. the more interesting ones was that one is a RE agent, and, well, the current market isn’t going so hot. So she’s giving herself 6 months (I guess 5 more), save up some cash and hit the grind again. If it doesn’t work out then back to this again and repeat. Another girl said she broke up with her bf so this is one way to make money quickly. Not sure how long she will be around. Another girl says her bf doesn’t have a job so she’s working to support both of them. But it sounds like he just sits around and games all day.

One student says she’s learned so much English talking to guys at the spa. I guess getting paid to take English lessons is another plus.

 

[OG_funguy]

Unless you know them well, they will lie about many of those questions anyways. But #6 is harmless...and I wouldn't ask #3 (the answer should be obvious anyways).

 

[Lalallala]

Unless you know them well, they will lie about many of those questions anyways. But #6 is harmless...and I wouldn't ask #3 (the answer should be obvious anyways).

The interesting questions to #3 that I got were all from girls at BMR and OM. I forgot how the questions came up though. But yes, the answer is money.

 

[Hornet]

I have asked #6 a lot in the context of country they are from since it’s relatively harmless but #1 only a few times although they have asked for my # on occasion too.

I never ask #3. And while I’ve never asked #2, #4 and #5 I have had mpa’s just openly tell me about them anyway. I’ve hear stories about their kids, BF’s and were very clear about their age.

 

[Spartan2020]

If I like the woman and service, after a few visits I aways get the number. Too many times, I found a good woman at a spa only to have them disappear to a different spa, or drop out out of the industry for a period of time and you never reconnect. Regarding age, once I get to know them they usually tell me but the conversation is more about birthdays. Frankly I don't really care about age. Plus, my estimate is usually close. Regarding personal stuff, I don't disclose very much about myself, so I expect the same. But it depends, on the women some like to discuss holidays, family etc.

 

[Muffie]

Oh dude. I’ve asked each and every one of these questions

Before opening the thread I assumed it was gonna be.. “do you take it up the bum?” Or some shit like that

That's usually my opening line

 

[BasedD]

Age question is acceptable and answered with honesty if they are inside of your age by +/- 5y, my experience. Not sure why youd ever, ever bring up family questions at a tug joint, thats autistic levels of social ignorance.

Question 3 is going to just be a mood killer most of the time.

Asking what area someone is from originally isnt bad but if you dont have something meaningful to contribute re:the diff between areas of the country in question? You look like a knob.

 

[cl794]

1. Ask for phone number. Contentious point discussed in other threads but I personally would only ask after several repeats, and with a very specific purpose in mind (eg. If MP suggesting she is taking an extended trip to China in near future and you want to see her before/after same. Or if she is talking about leaving her spa and heading elsewhere). I am surprised by how many offer it themselves.

I've never asked. But I wish I did for one.

2. Her age. You will very likely not get a "clear" answer anyways and some really dislike even asking (I have never asked TBH)

I've asked many times when the vibes were cool. And I've asked back after they first asked me for my age. Not exact age, but like, "I think you're mid 30s"

3. Why are you doing this work. Do you like this work. I asked a veteran provider who I though I was having a good convo with this early in my hobbying and the session turned bad very quickly. Avoid.

Never asked to FS provider. But semi provider mostly just see it as a job. They mostly respond with "this makes money", which is perfectly fine and I just honestly agree with them.

4. Do you have children. How old are your children. Even if they offer up the fact they have kids-- I do not ask their age. Safe to assume many do have children.

this one I wouldn't randomly bring up. It only came up with one and the only follow up is that it's implied she's doing this partly b/c being single mom is hard.

5. Do you have a boyfriend/husband.

agree, definitely don't bring up randomly.

I get asked all the time if I'm married though. I can't imagine they would get mad if you casually ask them back.

6. What city are you from. This one I would suggest less contentious, but some, maybe from smaller cities, feel this is too personal.

you can ask what area they're from if they want to be vague they can.

 

[Bobbadoo]

Unless it is after a few visits and I like the lady, I never ask for their phone number. However, some of them would just give it to me after even the first visit with them.
I would never ask them questions that I'd hate to be asked myself at a spa. These are usually the personal questions about family, whether or not I have a spouse, kids, my salary - yeah, believe it or not, some asked me that. I don't mind being asked about my age, but will never ask them their's.
I like going to a spa to fulfill a fantasy, without turning it into an awkward experience for both of us.

 

[Social-Misfit]

Strange, maybe I'm odd but those questions never crossed my mind, because of what they do one can assume they get asked repeatedly.
The phone number, I've been offered but never ask for it.
I take the conversation elsewhere, never talk about her business just chat about life in general, you'd be surprised where it goes from there. I try and take her mind off the jobs mundane side, so she can focus on my dick. lol